I need a bit of help... I am flat and down, but am trying to keep moving, I need some ideas of something I could do for myself to help move forward.. I am trying to be positive and keep moving forward, taking my medication again is helping but I need to do a bit more than just that.

I am going to Auckland for a weekend just soon which I am really looking forward too... so I was thinking about what clothes to take, they need to be smart, but comfortable and feeding friendly, I have 2 sling orders to do then I can create something nice for me, I am a sponsor for the sling walk so want to wear something nice to that, but not ott.... will need to think about comfy shoes too... hmmm I know it all sounds shallow but its giving me something positive to think about and to do for me, I also want to have another sort out of my clothing.. I have far too much.

love D


Anonymous said...
October 2, 2010 at 12:45 PM

its hard sometimes to concentrate on just you huh? you feel guilty, like you shouldnt. but then if you think about it, if you are happy, its so much easier to be a mother, a WAHM, a wife or partner. So in reality YOU should be the first person that YOU work on.

do you have an hour or 2 tonight that you can start to recharge? little things like cleanse, tone, moisturise and take your time doing so, a bubble bath, shave your legs. thats my plan anyway!

as for a new outfit, it always makes you feel good, when you look good, and your confidence shows and you enjoy yourself so much more. its so worth it, and hey, you have the talent to make your own clothing, im quite jealous about that! <3 love <3 Cx

Demelza said...
October 2, 2010 at 6:42 PM

thank you, I straightened my hair before cos I wanted too which was really nice... I am going to tidy the living room of all my fabric and go hunt for something nice to make for Auckland, have got a couple of orders but they can wait till monday.

I slept in my sons bed last night and left hubby to tend to bubs, might do the same again tonight so I can get a bit more sleep.

thanks again. love D

K said...
October 3, 2010 at 9:17 PM

Hang in there lovely, agree with Carla - pamper yourself! It's so hard with lots of kiddies, but you need it. HUGS!!!

Anjuli said...
October 5, 2010 at 8:58 PM

If you can get someone to look after the kids, you could go for a walk (and if you have an mp3 player listen to your fav music) - fresh air and movement sometimes help, or organise to go for coffee with a friend that makes you laugh :)

Demelza said...
October 6, 2010 at 10:25 PM

I had some me time today, was nice, just did some sewing etc, will get a bit more once O starts kindy next week, and when I go to auckland I will have a nice break even though I am taking bubs with me,

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